How should I cope with this?
Ok, this morning I was supposed to go on a flight to Charlotte, North Carolina to see my mother but last night she called me up and said that I cant come because Matt (her boyfriend) kicked her out and this is what she said "I worked SOOO hard all day to get things ready for you, I cleaned all of the bathrooms, I got $200 worth of groceries, I bought an air mattress for you, and I had a couple beers." Her boyfriend then kicked her out of the house because she had two beers. Do you think that is right? Anyways, this morning she called me back, she was staying in a hotel , and she asked me if we were still coming (isnt that crazy), I then told her that I had cancelled the flight because I didnt want to be stuck in that kind of a mess, she then hung up on me because she was angry. What should I do and how should I cope with this? She said dont come last night so I wasnt going to upset her more. What else could have started the fight, she isnt an alcoholic.
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1 :
iTS YOUR MOTHER FOR GODS SAKE GO AND SEE HER. FIND OUT WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON. IS SHE AN ALCOHOLIC YOU DONT GET KICKED OUT FOR HAVING TWO BEERS THERE IS MORE TO THIS THAN MEETS THE EYE. SHE NEEDS YOUR SUPPORT. GOOD LUCK
2 :
I would be willing to bet that a "couple of beers" was really a lot more than a "couple". You did the right thing. Why would you want to subject yourself to that? If she isn't in danger in any way, it sounds like things are pretty normal in her life (as in normally a MESS).
3 :
Thats your mom, you should have gone anyway to make sure Matt didnt do anything else to her. She needs you there right now, help her find her own place.
4 :
You better go check out the situation...something obviously isn't right.
